- Parental blessing (b)
Let the Little Children Come! (Matthew 19:14)
Okay, back to the times of house repair. I am grateful God has allowed me to see more of His preparations from years ago for the heart work for His eternal glory. The trip to China confirmed His unchanging love and perfect timing in everything and every season in our life. Since I didn’t have a set time or place to study God’s Word during the house construction, I did my Bible study whenever I could, in front of the kids. It was not my favorite way of studying the Bible. But the Lord not only knows my season in life but orchestrates it. He always provided what I needed to hear and met me where I was. It could be just one verse, one hymn or a radio program, which was sufficient for my day.
My four year old then could see my genuine need to spend time with the Lord. Not only did he learn to have some quiet time together with me, but he also wanted to read his own children’s Bible and took notes like I did. Whenever I think about this, my heart is warmed by God’s grace. Our kids don’t need us to put them first but they do need to see Who (the Ultimate higher authority) we are under and worshipping. God used my children to challenge me to worship Him at all times and see life as an adventure with my Lord.
It takes creativity and open mind to grow life in the midst of house repair. 🙂
- Parental blessing (a)
For the Lord is good;
his steadfast love endures forever,
and his faithfulness to all generations. Psalm 100:5
Thank you, Father!
In October, 2015, I started this blessing counting journal around the one year house-owning anniversary. The Lord put ten specific areas of blessings on my heart to record. By the time I am meditating on #9, the “parental blessing”, we are already back from our one-month trip to China over the Christmas break! Once again, I am grateful for the beautiful timing. I am reminded that no matter how much our hearts are stirred due to our current circumstances (good or bad), it all shall pass. It seems like ages ago when we were rebuilding the house, now that life has much more settled down. However, the heart lessons are still as fresh as yesterday. Interestingly, time in China in many ways resembled our time with all the construction going on around the house: lots of new things everyday, no set schedule, no set place for everything, great need for flexibility and wisdom in parenting, more time with our parents (or grandparents for the boys).
When we are pushed out of our comfort zone in parenting, we are more likely to fall back to our flesh, and idolize circumstances we used to live in. We need to be more reliant on our Heavenly Father in choice-making, attitude-setting, and following His teaching from His Word and leading in the Spirit. As a mom of two active boys, I fail so many times and feel inadequate, but I am even more blessed to grow along with them by the grace of my Father above.
Yeah, we had the floor done before the baby started crawling!
Happy Birthday, Isaiah Tiancheng Goll! 高天成，生日快乐！
Mama and Baba (Daddy in Chinese) have been working hard to get this blog running so we can start writing and leave a “simple abundant legacy“. What a joy that our first post after we are done with the blog construction pages is to celebrate our 2nd son’s first birthday!
His birthday this year has fallen on a Monday, free zoo day, also the first day my husband is done with Monday classes for the semester! With the beautiful weather, we can’t think about a better way to celebrate Isaiah’s birthday but to a zoo visit! To make the event merrier, grandparents also joined us! Yeah for grandparents living nearby!!
Let’s get to know our little buddy a little more:
10 fun facts about Isaiah:
- “Happy Feet, Isaiah!” Since he was born, he likes to move his feet and toes. At first I thought it was a baby thing, then I realized it is an “Isaiah” thing. Not sure how long this is going to last but we surely enjoy watching his movement.
- Adores his big brother, Elijah. He is watching and interested in what his brother is doing and where he is going.
- Loves music. As soon as music starts, so does his rocking.
- Born at home on Mother’s Day in 2014.
- “In Christ Alone” is Isaiah’s bedtime hymn.
- Loves people and would rather happily play with people even when naps/meals are missed.
- Blocks are not to build but to throw, the further the better.
- Two bottom teeth like to chew a lot of real food, especially food from mama’s bowl.
- Uses a lot of clicks in his speech (a great potential to learn African languages with clicks).
- Loves sitting position the best as he discovered all the potentials by being super flexible.
Isaiah’s 5 Major Events
- He watched us gutting the house so patiently and joyfully.
- Two road trips: Chicago, Memphis. Lost some hair in the back while laying in the car seat, but did amazingly well with the trip.
- Attended BSF infant program.
- Got to be with Gonggong (mama’s dad from China) for six weeks.
- Attended Sunday services with us as a family.
5 Things Isaiah didn’t do for the first year:
- No fancy themed birthday party.
- No sick visit for the first year.
- No hair cut.
- No baby story time at the library but attended pre-school programs with his big brother instead.
- No walking, which worked out great with the house construction going on.